The New Old Age - Getting to Know You

(Note from WCO: The article from the New York Post, below, quotes one of our associate facilities, Meadowlark Hills' Steve Shields, Manhattan, KS.) 

If you have a relative in a nursing home, you’ve probably had variants of these conversations:

Visitor: How’s my father doing today?
Aide: Which one is your father?

Or:

Visitor: Is my mother’s appetite better today?
Aide: I’m not sure; I wasn’t here yesterday.

Or:

Visitor: How’s my aunt getting along with her new roommate?
Aide: I’m sorry, I don’t know. I usually work on the third floor.

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How to Give Without Stretching Yourself Too Thin

As the holidays draw near, we're inundated with requests for giving. Stores want your money, family and work want your time, and it seems there's never quite enough of either to go around. There are the parties, the school and church functions, and a hundred other things competing for your attention. You want to do something special in this season of giving, but don't have any time or money to spare, so what can you do?

How about trying something smaller?

There are plenty of big things you can do at this time of year--volunteering at a soup kitchen or donating toys to needy children--but how about a few things that won't stress you out or break your budget?

Think small. Really small.

Let that car cut in front of you.

Pick up an item that's fallen off the shelf at the store.

Smile at a frazzled store clerk.

Offer to help carry a bag of groceries.

All of these are small gestures that add up to a lot of good will. It's free, doesn't cost more than a minute of your time, and makes someone's day a little brighter. What's not to like?

Have a little more time or energy to spare?

If you're out shoveling your sidewalk, why not do some (or all!) of your neighbor's too?

Like to knit or crochet? Consider making an item or two for Carewear or a similar charity. These groups provide clothing and blankets for infants and children in hospitals. It's a great way to share the "warmth" of the season.

Some people (like me) cook and bake to relax. If you've got a knockout bread recipe, or a family-favorite batch of cookies, consider making extra and donating to a church or food bank that could use some help. Homemade goods are always the best.

Clean your closets. Many charities, like Goodwill, are in need of blankets and warm clothing at this time of year. If you've got an extra bed set that the kids have outgrown, or a pile of sweatshirts that never get worn, pass them along to people who could put them to good use. You'll weed out some clutter, and help someone else in the process.

Love to sing? Round up a group of friends and family and go caroling. It could be at a nursing home, or just around your neighborhood, but sharing your gift of music with others is fun and free.

Giving doesn't have to be about dollar signs or stacks of presents. Little acts of kindness have the biggest rewards. Making someone's day a little easier can do so much more to lift spirits than the latest gift or gadget, and isn't that what this season of giving is all about? You can feel good about making life a little easier for another person, and you won't have to spend a dime to do it!

Addictions and The Workplace

Addictions come in many forms, and bear many different levels of social stigma. While needing a jolt of caffeine in the morning might be seen as a mild annoyance, a prescription drug addiction can be devastating. Addictions run the gamut from substances to experiences--overeating and gambling can be just as addictive as hard drugs, and just as damaging to people and families. Addiction is an unpleasant topic, and one most people would rather avoid than face head on, but as stress levels rise with the coming holidays, it's important to take a moment and talk about this crucial issue.

With caregiving comes stress, and most caregivers are surrounded by a wide variety of prescription and over-the-counter medications. It can be all too easy to fall into the habit of using cigarettes or alcohol to deal with stress, if not harder substances. Prescription drug abuse has risen dramatically in recent years due to the ready availability of drugs, and the perception that because they're FDA-approved, they're safe. When it comes to recreational substance use, an occasional drink after work is not necessarily a bad thing, but can you tell if it's becoming a problem? What about mood-altering pills, or sleep aids? It's hard to be objective about these things sometimes, so the folks at Johns Hopkins University created a simple quiz you can take to assess your usage: http://www.intervention.com/defns.html#addsd

Prescription drug abuse is a serious issue among health care workers, and the only way to change this trend is to be vigilant for signs of abuse. If you pass medications, you're already familiar with the laws and regulations for medications, but the US Department of Justice offers these reminders:

• You have a legal and ethical responsibility to uphold the law and to help protect society from drug abuse.
• You have a professional responsibility to prescribe and dispense controlled substances appropriately, guarding against abuse while ensuring that patients have medication available when they need it.
• You have a personal responsibility to protect your practice from becoming an easy target for drug diversion. You must become aware of the potential situations where drug diversion can occur and safeguards that can be enacted to prevent this diversion.

They have assembled a very helpful guide that helps you spot the signs of drug impairment in coworkers, and lets you know when and how to become involved if you suspect abuse. You can read the full guide here: http://www.deadiversion.usdoj.gov/pubs/brochures/drug_hc.htm

What if you suspect a friend, family member or coworker might have a problem with addiction? First, take this quiz to help you analyze the symptoms: http://www.intervention.com/defns.html#addop

If you still think there may be a problem, this article shows you what you can do to help someone dealing with addiction: http://bit.ly/doynp3

Finally, if you or someone you know needs help immediately, WebMD has a helpful list of crisis resources: http://www.webmd.com/help/crisis-resources

Stay safe this holiday season!