The first time she can’t remember your name.
The first time he doesn’t seem to recognize you.
The first time she responds to your touch in anger, something she never did before.
Alzheimer’s hurts.
As if these deeply painful moments aren’t hard enough, there’s the
repeated questions. The anxiety and agitation. The wandering.
Hallucinations.
There are so many difficult behaviors that go along with an Alzheimer’s or dementia diagnosis, which makes caregiving
tremendously challenging. You’re dealing with the loss of the person
you knew, he’s fading away right before your eyes, and this alone takes
its toll. You’re caring around the clock (one of the most famous
Alzheimer’s caregiving books is called The 36-Hour Day
for good reason). You’re physically exhausted, emotionally spent. No
matter how much you love the person you’re caring for, a person can only
handle so much. (And if you’re caring for someone you don’t have a
relationship with or someone you had once been estranged from, the task
is equally trying.)
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