An Excerpt From Our Social Service Designee Course

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Understanding Death and Dying

Preparing for death often means finishing a life's work, setting things right with family and friends, and making peace with the inevitable. Spiritual and religious issues are important to many dying people and their families. Members of the clergy are part of the care team in some hospice and hospital facilities, and professional caregivers can help people and their families find appropriate spiritual assistance if they do not have a relationship with a minister or other spiritual leader.

Grieving is a normal process that usually begins before an anticipated death. According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, a pioneer in death and dying, the dying person typically experiences five emotional stages, often in the following order: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. A person in denial may act as if, talk as if, or think that he is not dying. Denial is caused by fears about loss of control, separation from loved ones, an uncertain future, and suffering. Talking to a doctor or other health care member can help the dying person understand that he can remain in control and that his pain and other symptoms will be controlled. Anger may be expressed as a sense of injustice: "Why me?". Bargaining can be a sign of reasoning with death, that is, seeking more time. When the person realizes that bargaining and other strategies are not working, depression may develop. Acceptance, sometimes described as facing the inevitable, may come after discussions with family, friends, and care providers.

Preparing for death is hard work, with many emotional ups and downs. However, for most people, it is a time of new understanding and growth. By dealing with past hurts and mending relationships, a dying person and family members can achieve a profound sense of peace.

Preparing for approaching death can be terrifying if you have no idea what to expect both physically and emotionally. As the dying process enters its final stages there are two different dynamics at work.

The physical aspect concerns the body as it begins its final process of shutting down; this ends the physical systems' functioning.

The other dynamic is the emotional/mental and spiritual area which is a different process. This is where the spirit of the dying individual begins to slip away from its immediate environment and attachments. This release tends to follow its own priorities when it comes to letting go; of family members, unfinished business of a personal nature and/or unreconciled problems. You have all heard people tell how someone on their death bed refused to let go until a certain member of the family was able to get there. Even when the body is trying to shut down the spirit hangs on until a resolution is reached. It is as though the dying person needs permission to go; needs to feel that he has achieved the support and acceptance of his fate by those he leaves behind. This way he can slip into the next dimension of life with grace and dignity.

Acceptance is coming to terms with reality. It is accepting that the world will still go on without you. Death is after all, just a part of life.

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As a Social Service Designee, you may spend one on one time with dying residents. You may just want to read aloud or hold their hands. Some residents enjoy reading a passages from the Bible (or their preferred holy book) that are comforting (Psalm 23, in particular). Know your residents’ likes and dislikes. This will help you to know what residents would want you to do during this time. You can also get information from family members.

20 Things Nurses Wish They Never Had to Say

The title---borrowed from a nurses' desk calendar---is self-explanatory. The situations that give rise to these sayings, however, are not.

OK, I'll have to admit that I got the idea for this piece from a desk calendar my sister gave me for Christmas last year. It's 365 pages of nursing funnies, some of which really aren't, but the rest of them range from the mildly amusing to rolling-on-the-floor-with-tears-squirting-out-of-your-eyes HILARIOUS. And after having the kind of Hell Week I just went through, I needed the comic relief of "How in the world did THAT get in THERE??!"

Here, for your enjoyment, are twenty more things nurses wish they never had to say:

1) To the CNA: "Uh-oh........it looks like Mrs. Chambers hasn't had a BM in nine days."
2) To the patient with Munchausen's Syndrome: "No, I can't give you any more pain medicine," when what you'd really like is to swack him up with enough Dilaudid to shut him up about his manufactured miseries for a few hours.
3) To co-workers, upon seeing a frequent flyer coming up in the elevator: "Oh, Lordy......look at what the cat dragged in."
4) To the MD: "You want me to do WHAT?"
5) To your best friend's 10-year-old: "No, Eric, you're not a dork. Everybody gets their big toe stuck in the bathtub faucet at least once."

Read the rest...

How Nurse Aide Beat the Odds to Head Up Department

“A very important member of staff,” is how Dr Denis Ogolla, the managing director of Nairobi’s Avenue Healthcare, describes Irene Kaberere. She is the head of support services at the hospital.

Over the years, she earned trust due to her dedication to work which saw her rise through the ranks.

On her way up, she maintained a close relationship with both staff and patients.

“She is the sort of person that all staff members want to talk to, not only regarding official matters but also personal issues,” said Dr Ogolla.

“She spreads that motherly feeling to all of us at the hospital.” Ms Kaberere was employed at Avenue Healthcare in 1978, two years after the hospital was established. She is among the hospital’s eldest employees.

She served as a nurse-aide, assisting senior nurses and doctors with duties in the wards, a task she performed for four years.

Read the rest of the article here:   http://www.businessdailyafrica.com/How+nurse+aide+beat+the+odds+to+head+department/-/539444/1212236/-/ki2ygez/-/

What to Expect Working as a Nurse Aide

The increasing elderly population combined with advances in technology in the medical field is increasing the demand for nurse aides. In fact the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics predicts a 28 percent growth in nurse aide positions between 2006 and 2016. People looking for an entry-level position in the healthcare field may find this is the right position for them once they learn about a nurse's aide information and salary.

Job Responsibilities
The main function of a nurse aide is to provide personal care to residents in a medical facility, and this can include assisting them with bathing, eating, dressing or going to the bathroom. They also transport patients to different departments by aiding them in walking through a medical facility or pushing them in a wheelchair. Since the job of a nurse aide is considered entry-level in the healthcare field, people in this position assist nursing staff, who serve as their supervisors, with setting up equipment and obtaining supplies.

Working Environment
Nurse aides can work in any medical facility where there is a need for assistance, but they are most commonly found in nursing homes, assisted living centers and hospitals. These facilities house patients with the greatest need for assistance and personal care services. Since care is needed for patients 24/7, nurse aides may work in the evenings, at night or on weekends to meet the demands of the facility.

Read more here:   http://www.infobarrel.com/What_to_Expect_Working_as_a_Nurse_Aide

New Font Could Help Dyslexic Readers

It might not be pretty, but a Dutch graphic designer believes that a new font he's developed can help people with dyslexia read more easily.

Graphic designer Christian Boer developed the typeface, called Dyslexie, back in 2008. And while it isn't the first font created specifically to help dyslectics, it may be the first backed up by some scientific evidence that suggests it works.

A recent study by researchers at the University of Twente in the Netherlands found the font helped to decrease the number of errors dyslectics made when reading.

Millions of people worldwide are affected by dyslexia, a language-based learning disability that causes problems in reading, spelling, writing and even pronouncing words.

There is no consensus on how many people have the condition, but estimates range from 10 to 20 per cent of the population.

Many people mistakenly believe that those with dyslexia read words backwards. In fact, what they are more likely to do is mix up and switch letters, especially ones that look similar.

For the average dyslectic, many of the letters in the Latin-based alphabet look frustratingly alike. At least eight letters, for example, are based on the letter "o" with various "tails." The letters "b," "d," "p," "q," "g," "a," and even "c" and "e" can be easily mixed up by someone with this learning disability.

Read the rest here:  http://www.ctv.ca/CTVNews/TopStories/20110729/new-typeface-font-dyslexic-readers-110730/